In comparison to the average man, most women feel uncomfortable discussing problems with orgasm; however, you’re not alone if you have trouble climaxing. You could say there’s an epidemic of women who have a hard time having an orgasm with their sexual partner. One tool for helping you to achieve better sex is achieving solo female orgasm.
When you are familiar with your own body, it leads to a better relationship with your partner. Think about it – how can you tell your partner what you like if you don’t know for yourself? By taking matters into your own hands, you learn what works and what doesn’t.
Solo female orgasm is relaxing, relieves stress, and aids in your ability to have orgasm when you’re with a partner. It’s especially helpful if you’ve never had an orgasm before with a partner.
First, make sure you’re in a private place to explore your body. Warm water is always soothing, so try a bubble bath. While the warm water soothes you, try stimulation your clitoris with your fingers. Sometimes just inserting a finger into the vagina is enough to provide an orgasm.
You may also want to consider purchasing a vibrator to help stimulate the vaginal area. There is no end to the number of devices on the market that can help you to achieve a solo orgasm and there are also vibrators made for two.
Don’t be ashamed if you need this extra stimulation to achieve orgasm – many women do. You can purchase vibrators very discreetly online and you’ll find they may provide the extra stimulation you need to achieve orgasm.
Once you work out how you need to be touched and exactly what you need to have an orgasm, you can integrate that into your sex life with your partner. Let that person know what works and what doesn’t. Your partner will appreciate some direction instead of just guessing.
If you find it hard to verbalize your needs, move your partner’s hands to the places that give you the most pleasure. Don’t be afraid to be assertive in the bedroom – most people are happy to have the input.
You may be uncomfortable exploring your body if you’re not used to doing it, but when you get to know your own body you’ll have a better sex life with your partner. Flying solo is a good way to get to know yourself and improve the orgasms you have in your relationship.
So they call Masturbation Flying Solo now. Awesome. It is a good practice to learn your own body. Especially if you touch more than the clitoris.
Lovely. Good info.
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Great info and I totally agree. You need to be comfortable with yourself in order to be comfortable with someone else.